Love problems # 1.
25 February 2011
Why do we fall in love?
People fall in love for many reasons. Loving and being loved adds up spice to our lives. Its a magical experience that happens between two people. There are many kinds of love. Each have some kind of distinctive feel. Love to our parents, brothers, and sisters or a friend. And the kind of love we feel in romantic relationships.
How can we tell if we are really in love?
Some people might say that we can tell if were in love if the hearts tells you to. Which is on the field of medicine, the heart only pumps blood that circulates to our body, which is in fact true. It is the hypothalamus that dictates to our mind that were in love. Theoretically the hypothalamus controls body temperature, hunger, thirst, fatigue, sleep, and circadian cycles. But enough of this crap definition. In my own experience, we can tell if we really are in love if we are willing to give it all in her/him, like were willing to risk it all just to make them feel how we feel about them without asking anything in return, for me that is love.
What if she rejects you?
I have some doubts also about that part, I mean who doesn't? Its like going to a suicide mission on a war that you don't know if you gonna survive after it. But you know that's the best part of being in love. Love comes with a huge risk. If you really love her, you got to tell her. I know true love waits. And so??? what if she's also waiting? Like what Ive said on my previous blog, "Fear should never decide love."
Keep sending your question about love and relationships and everything under the sun. Ill answer them through this blog. And to senders, thanks for reading my blog. I'm sorry if this is a late reply. I'm kinda busy this past few weeks. I hope this answers your questions. Let me know ;)
How can we tell if we are really in love?
i say, when you set standards, then you met this person who has all the flaws you just simply hate and you still love her/him. and you kept on figuring out why you love this person, and you cannot answer yourself. you know, when you love this person despite his/her imperfections!